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Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Heaven from all Creatures hides the Book of Fate - So true.
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
One Night @ Marine Drive!
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Simple pleasures!!
When is that we stop being children? When is that we stop yearning for the little things in life which gave us the “evil” smiles and the “puppy dog” looks? The answer you are looking for is never. Its been a year now since I left college, 5 years since I left school and a million years ago I had abandoned what was and is the best part of my life – Infanthood. But as I grow up I am beginning to ask myself the question, which is impossible to answer, a million times over –
What if time had stopped when…
…I had still been an infant and everyone would just fawn over every little detail of yours like your eyes, ears, nose, mouth, for God’s sake, even the little split bubble you let out so inconspicuously yet so jovially. Over the years in my life, when I have had trouble adjusting to the realities of the harsh world with “clichéd” words like “immature” and ”irresponsible” hang over my head like a giant signboard, I have longed for the days where I was still a baby in a cradle. I would listen to aunties and uncles and grandpas and grandmas cooing at me more often than not, I would look at million different faces and colours and things and still not be able to make head or tail of what I was looking at, I would be adorned in pretty like frocks and dresses. But the best would have to be when I bawl my eyes out for no reason and wait for my mom to pick me up and smother me in her warmth and sing to me till I eventually fall asleep in the nook of her arms or over her shoulders with my hands clutched tightly over saree folds. Sigh, those were the times.
…I had still been in my fifth grade when I had everyone I needed around me to play with, to talk to and to pat our backs with. Like Phoebe says “the politics and mind games” were just part of growing up and adorning the Monkey caps and walking around school just because a few notes were passed around was plain “enjoyment”. The joy of flunking in Geography eventhough you knew all the answers was “then” a feather in my cap. The fracture I showed off for 2 weeks was like showing off a diamond that I had unearthed on my own.
…I had stayed in my ninth grade where I ruled my class (literally) as the class rep. Soaked up all the attention our class teacher was giving us and setting sight on our favorite teacher to be for the very first time. I still remember getting caught on camera playing an innocent yet rather virulent game of “Running and Catching”. Oh the lectures we heard! But our ever so sweetest class teacher was by our side the whole time; giving us her much needed support and pampering. We had established several games of “paper-ball” cricket inside the class and despite being caught by an eagle eyed teacher from a “far off” building, we weren’t ready to give them up. The incidents where we sneaked in portable radios during tests when we could listen to cricket commentaries still remain fresh in my mind.
…when we realized how great we were as a team and how much things are gonna change when we move into the first separation phase of our lives, eleventh grade. I had to let many of my bonds go and embrace many new ones who I realized later where going to strengthen my beliefs and roots. Those endless “periodic table songs” and model tests and cycle tests and what not, frustrated us but we stuck by it and went on to the second phase of “separation” – College.
…before I said those horrible words to a very good friend, which I knew would hurt her inevitably but said it anyway. If I had a paise for everytime I wished I could take those words back, I would have raised quite a small fortune. But I kept making the same mistake over and over till I finally realized that some things are best left alone. “Tis for the best” – I consoled myself.
…when it rained all those hailstones. I could have just sat and listened to the pelt of the stones all day, breathing in the soothing scent of the rains on the fresh dirt. Those were the times when you wish you had the time and place where you could just curl up under the blanket with a hot cup of tea beside you and your favorite book over your head. More often than not, the time and place options are not very favoring. After my recent shift to Mumbai, forget pleasant rains, I don’t get to curl up or drink tea or read my favorite book or do all 3 together cuz I find myself drenched from head to toe from the raging monsoons and end up taking a hot shower and sleeping through the rains only to wake up to go to work the next morning.
…when the clock struck 12 at midnight on my birthday when I was still in college. My phone would be on the buzz ever so continuously flooding with calls and messages from my loved ones wishing me on my bday. These days, I dread my bday coming up in about a month. That’s the day I feel the loneliest, so far away from friends and family. Sigh!
…when we finished our final year project and waited around to scribble nothings on each others’ shirts and overcoats. We never realized how hard it would for us to meet afterwards, never realized how much we were gonna miss each other. The fun lasted a whole day and it was hard to digest that the place we had gone gotten up so early in the morning to go to, everyday (almost) for 4 years of our life, wasn’t expecting us the next day onwards. Took some time to sink in and for some of us, it still has not.
…when I got my silver medal as THE proof that I had beaten my brother’s records for academics in college. That very moment I was beaming with pride and joy and what not. A little sad that I had missed my dream of getting a gold medal by points yet so very ebullient that I could just scream. The photo sessions afterward where I proudly showed off and “scene vittufied” my silver medal and “two certificates”.
I could just go on and on with this. But my point is, there are a lot of things in life that give us simple pleasures. Treasure them cuz there are a lot of times we would wish we could re do them from time to time. Its quite easy to say this but we must learn to put them into practice. I am not trying to preach, dudes and dudettes. Let it sink, mull it over, stew this thought in your brains and hey, it might make you see things in a different perspective. I know I did, Live in the moment you guys. Cheers!!
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Aamchi Mumbai - Part 2 - How I did and do survive!

My cousin took my dad and me out for a spin with the inspection of my future hostel at the top of the agenda. The location of my hostel was named Bandra and is described as being a total chic “flick”. You know- actors, models, the like. Sachin Tendulkar, the God of Cricket, lives in Bandra. “SMIRK SMIRK” My office was in the second most expensive commercial hub in Mumbai – Bandra Kurla Complex. After trying to locate my office and failing miserably, we decided to scout for my hostel. We reached at the address given by the warden uneventfully and found ourselves in this whole other part of Mumbai. Green and quiet, I loved it almost as soon as I saw the locale (I wish I could have put my ridiculously big foot into my even bigger mouth). The hostel was at a walkable distance from the beach and the most sought after ECONOMIC, by which I mean road-side, shops. Well, the EXTERIOR of the hostel was nice, bright and cheery, so I went in with high hopes. My bad! The INTERIOR was dark and dingy and BLECH. But I was determined to not let my hopes down. The warden was a total *beep* and my dad agrees “GRIN”. She went on and on and on about rules and I could just about picture myself living in a hell- hole. But I resolved to be optimistic and signed myself in. We left the place after opti ng myself into a bunk bed.
We reached Goregaon (my cousin’s place) where my dad and the cousins fell into a conversation about this and that which left me alone with my thoughts. That’s when it all came crashing down on me. The change, the loneliness and then came the tears. Liquids have this way of gaining volume when acted upon by pressure and that’s exactly what happened with me. Once the tears started there was no way I could stop them. My cousins tried, my mom all the way over from CBE tried, my dad tried – for God’s sake, I tried too but nope – the tears kept flowing in. Then something happened. I realized that come next morning, I would be starting my career in something that I spent 4 years of my life preparing for. I switched into “nervous” mode. Tears would have been so much better. All said and done, I convinced myself to fall asleep so that I can have a fresh start the next day.
Next day, bright and sunny, nothing amiss except for the fact that I seemed to have misplaced my heart in my mouth. We (my dad, cousin and I) set out early to finish the office hunt before I became the first person in the world to reach office late on his very first day. An hour later, my dad and I were welcomed by the security at my office entrance and given ID cards for use inside the office. My dad and I spoke in hushed voices when this trio sitting before broke into loud conversations. I hadn’t known then that I had just seen my future DADA in the company - the small, lanky, IIM-A graduate with a thing for chicks – Mohit. More about him, later, probably.
Then came the time where I had to bid my dad adieu and I was heralded into something called a “Huddle Room” and was asked to fill bundles of forms. Apparently, my first day would involve a lot of texts. I had no idea what I was gonna do for my lunch when the person who interviewed me showed up at the door. Vipul told me that I was to join him for lunch and I tagged along. In the lift lobby, I met Swati, my future confidante and sister figure. I called her “ma’am” (habit from college) and Vipul, sir and I was promptly shushed by both. I had my first lunch with my team mates (which I was unaware of then) and my boss, Vipul (again, dint have the slightest idea) at Hyatt.
Hyatt was the kind of hotel I had only seen in movies. It took me a lot of time to drink in my surroundings. The lunch buffet was exquisite but Italian, so I satisfied myself with dessert. Oh and the funny thing was, when everybody got up to load up their plates for the main course, I got up to leave thinking that the lunch was done; having never had a four course meal in my life. Our meals usually consist of rice and gravy and some pickles or vegetables, etc. Embarrassing!! This gave me the cue that Swati and I were gonna hit it off. What happened, Swati and I, will take to our graves. *SHINY GRIN*
After lunch, it was back to the office. And Vandana showed me around the office and escorted me to my very own “Workstation” which means my desk. I loved it. It had my name on it. Yayy!! For the first few days, or atleast till I got my laptop, I was advised to polish my networking skills. The rest is silence.
That’s how eventful my first day went. My dad left to CBE, my home sweet home, the next day. And poor me, was left to stew my feelings in that God forbidden hostel which I must say, was built to torture girls. The rooms were small and dingy and I don’t even wanna get started on the bathrooms. I missed my cozy room like hell when I almost lost my finger to the ceiling fan which hovered dangerously over my head (I had the top bunk). I loved my office and my colleagues and couldn’t wait to reach office every morning (could you blame me with my other option being the TORTURE CHAMBER?) Nine days after I booked into the hostel, I decided to call it quits there. Refund or no refund, I was getting out of there. That’s when I moved into my nine month PG room at Andheri. It was a lovely locale and the room where I owned half a bed and a cupboard and bathroom was much better than the TORTURE CHAMBER.
I got myself settled in over a period of time and weekends found me exploring Mumbai to the extent of Elephanta Caves. HA! Why that’s a big deal? Cuz even Mumbaikaars haven’t been there! My b’day that year is the most depressing b’day I have ever had. No family, no friends and sick in bed. No gifts, no cards, nothing – ZILCH. But I got over it and moved on. August 15, Indian Independence Day was also my Independence Day cuz I finally went home, BY FLIGHT, for the first time after 2 months. And it was heavenly. It was like a much needed “spa vacation”. Meanwhile, back in the office I had been given a project which required my travels to Bengaluru, Hyderabad, Chennai and the like to meet customers and familiarize myself with the business and the like. And during my travels might I mention, I met Namitha (the south Indian actress of Billa fame), Tamanna (of Paiyaa fame), Manju Warrier (from the Mallu film industry) and a few others.
Meanwhile Swati and I were hitting it off and I had made some real good friends too. Unmesh was like THE guy I knew who could tell you anything about Mumbai. And I hit it off with him as well. And my social networking skills paid off as I eventually made a whole bunch of friends in Mumbai – be it the next door neighbor or the gym instructor.
December, the month where I travelled abroad for the first time in my life, will always remain close to my heart. I had always thought that my first international visit would be to US or the UK but it was in fact to China. It was for a couple of days of training and I was all hyped about it. Shanghai is one of the most fascinating cities in the world. The infrastructure is simply mind-boggling. The weather was gelid and forced me to wrap myself in layers but I loved it. The only problem was the many different forms of non-vegetarian food that they served there and I hence chose to eat my Ready-To-Eat meals and smoking samosas that they served at Radisson, New World. Nanjing road is THE place to be in. From yummy Haagen-Dazs to steaming Starbucks coffees to street performances, you name it and you can
find it on the Nanjing Road walkway. I spent two of the evenings taking a stroll down the Nanjing road walkway enjoying the cold and taking in the culture and indulging myself in hot mochas from Starbucks loaded with chocolate and Haagen Dazs’ ice creams, eventhough the temperature was like 2 degrees. The Huangpu River separating Pudong and Puxi was exquisite and so well lit. The river is a divide between the modern Pudong and the archaic Puxi and the Pudong skyline at night was so worth the near-frostbite that I got. Being almost Christmas time, everywhere I turned I could see beautiful Christmas trees that
escalated the joy and warmth of the season. The specialty of China is I think the fact that they served Corn juice like they serve water in India –an unlimited and a much welcomed pre-drink. I could just go on and on about China but I will zip it.
Now Hong Kong strangely didn’t ensnare my interest at all. On the contrary, I found Hong Kong a lot like Mumbai except for the Laser Show which was simply out of this world. And the metro system – WOW. I could sing praises for it and still not be able to put it in the right perspective. Its so neat and clean and organized and fast. Get this: the HK airport is on the sea or something and to get to the airport from the city you gotta take a metro which is dedicated to commuters to and from the airport only AND you can check in your baggage at the metro station and quit worrying about it till after you get down from the plane at your destination. Cool, hanh?? I should mention this ,being a frequent air traveler, there are no stupid baggage tags that you have to attach to your carry in bags which is a huge relief and the security check is over in a ZAP. AND there is a Disney store at the airport (I was drooling all over the store, sigh). Oh and the chocolates – lip smackingly heavenly. Aji Ichiban is the most popular candy and chocolate store
in HK and they have every kind of
chocolate and candy in every different kind of shape and size and colour. When I returned to India I had some holiday weight on me and Aji Ichiban – totally responsible for that. “GOOFY GRIN” All good things must come to an end and so did my China
trip. I was back in India before I even knew it but somehow I found that I had missed the place.
My work was going as enjoyable as ever. When my landlord at my PG started creating ruckus and I called it quits there as well and decided that it was high time that I had gotten an apartment on my own where I can cook and clean up after myself and thus ended up in a cozy little place in Borivali west. February flew by so fast that I began to doubt if I was sleep walking. And now it’s March of 2011. I survive in this fast moving city that I have come to know and LOVE (there, I have said it), cooking on my own, reading books, hanging out with friends, travelling around and working my ass off while loving it.
That’s about my stint in Mumbai as of now and looking forward to more adventures as long as I am here. Of course, I miss my friends but that doesn’t stop me from making new ones. Thanks to all my colleagues and friends and their families who have made my life in Mumbai from “EAAAAGH” to “BRING IT ON”.
After 10 months, here goes my status update:
1) Waking up to the sound of pigeons “coo-ing” outside my window.
2) Breakfast made with my own hands – however measly it is.
3) A brisk walk to the bus stop – briefly stopping to get my hand licked by this adorable Great Dane who is as tall as I am.
4) An hour in the freezing AC bus catching up with my reading or unfinished naps “WINK”
5) 9 hours at the office doing something I love with the people I love.
6) Another hour in the AC bus – this time drooling and snoring – never realizing that my mouth is agape the whole way.
7) A stroll back to my apartment greeted by countless cats (there is a fish market on the way to my place).
8) A nice hot cup of tea.
9) Stress relieving hour at the gym.
10) Some Facebooking and reading and/or writing, etc.
11) Dinner – the South Indian way.
12) A wonderful 8 hour sleep.
13) Loving it, loving it and LOVING IT!!!
THE END